Unfortunately this is very commonplace. Somehow these people think they are doing something good but only undermining their own community.

These are the Black friends racists white use when they get caught up.

I would like to know why? Post nut brain is not that defeatable to where you just be I'm activily helping tear down my own on purpose. I asked this because I feel like I have been done the dirtiest to feel, act, and think that way but I don't. Now not saying I'm the only one to have hard life. But it is definitely confusing when you see or meet individuals like him. It's crazy that stuff Terrance Howard said about being Hollywood acting, is just like being in college and trying to get hired in the gaming and animation industry as a black person. You have to be pretty much gay /soft in looks and personality or they just want even give you a chance. I experience this and met a few brothers. One was a teacher I felt he was cool brother but you could tell he tamed. Then the other if you don't force yourself to be in to what they are into it's a wrap. This is why I always when referring to my time in those circles is I don't feel like ACTING because that's what it is when you can't be yourself.